Every Man… A Gallant Knight


The Gallant Knight made by Playmobil

It’s time to continue our Man Series.
This purpose is what inspired this entire series.
The word gallant is inspiring.
It means….

1. brave, spirited, noble-minded, or chivalrous: a gallantknight; a gallant rescue attempt.
2. exceptionally polite and attentive to women; courtly. (pure)
3. stately; grand: a gallant pageant.
4. showy, colorful, or stylish, as in dress; magnificent.
5. amorous; amatory.

Every man that I know… wants to be brave.  Ever hear of Sir William Wallace?
It’s a requirement that he is one of your heros if you are going to carry a man card.
Unfortunately… most men stop with that… bravery is enough.
But that is not a gallant man… a gallant man is so much more than that.

To be gallant is to be polite.  Men… how many of you ladies will say that you are polite.
We’ve gotten away from teaching young men to say, “Yes Sir”, “No Sir”, “Yes Ma’am”, “No Ma’am”.
But being exceptionally polite is more than just saying the right things.
It’s being pure. It’s having eyes for one woman.
It’s being a gentleman.  I love being a gentleman.
I really enjoy golf. One reason why… it’s known as a gentleman’s game.
Being gallant… is majestic… elegant… and magnificent.
It’s being the king of your throne but respecting the position… never abusing it.

Being gallant is stylish… some may call this metrosexual.
Now… some men… turn their nose at this.
But even when those men put on their “Sunday’s Best” they turn heads.
Because every man has a purpose to be gallant in relationships… and who doesn’t like to look good for their lady?

The last part of this definition is the part that many of our ladies would say is our “overdrive”.
To be amorous is to be passionate… sexually… passionate.
God has created every man to be gallant in relationships.
Our problem is we don’t fully know how to balance this.
It’s a constant struggle.
But trust me ladies… every man wants to be a gallant knight.
Sometimes… we need help in fully understanding this.
We need you to be a part of our gallant relationships.
We need your help… it’s why God created Eve.
We need your help to pull out the gallant knight inside of us.
We all have one… we just need your help in finding it.
Men… don’t procrastinate fully understanding what it means to be gallant…. you’ll thank me later.
Men… what is it about being created to be gallant in your relationships that you enjoy?
Women… what is it that you like your man to do to show you that he is gallant?


 

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Every Man… A Gallant Knight

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